Everything You Need to Know About Using a Sex Doll for the First Time

July 10, 2025

For single individuals who have been without a sexual partner for a long time, a sex doll may seem like an intriguing solution to loneliness. These dolls are designed to be life-sized, offering realistic skin textures, heated vaginal features, and even AI-driven voice interactions. Some models even allow you to customize the doll based on a photo of your ideal partner, creating a truly lifelike experience.

However, as a first-time user, you may have numerous questions:

Where can you buy a sex doll?
What should you know before using one?
How do you hide the doll discreetly from family?
How much do they cost?
Are the materials safe?
What’s the difference between TPE and silicone?
And many more.

This article answers all the essential questions for first-time sex doll buyers.

Where Can You Buy a Sex Doll?

No matter where you are—whether in the U.S., Europe, the UK, Australia, South America, or India—you can easily find sex dolls for sale online. Websites like ordersexdolls.com offer a wide range of bestselling sex dolls. Online shopping for sex dolls eliminates the worry about long delivery times. For users in the U.S., Canada, the UK, and Europe, many dolls are available in local warehouses, meaning they can be shipped within 3-7 days. For other locations, the delivery time might range from 7-15 days if the doll is made to order.

Are Sex Dolls Expensive? Find Affordable Options & Payment Plans

If you’re considering buying a sex doll but are concerned about the price, don’t worry! There are plenty of affordable sex doll options available. Whether you're looking for a budget-friendly doll or a more advanced model, we’ve got you covered. Below, we’ll explain the different price ranges for sex dolls and the materials they’re made from, as well as provide details on payment plans and how to cancel or return your order if needed.

Affordable Sex Doll Options

Cheaper Sex Dolls

If you're looking for an affordable option, take a look at our Cheaper Sex Doll collection (click here to check). These dolls are priced below $899 and are made from safe, eco-friendly medical-grade TPE or silicone materials. If you’d like to learn more about the differences between these materials, please refer to our detailed guide on choosing the right material for your sex doll (click here to read).

Basic Sex Dolls

These typically cost under $299. These are usually partial dolls, such as dolls with only a torso, fake pussy, or dildos, and are made from TPE material.

Full-Size Sex Dolls

If you prefer a more lifelike experience, full-size dolls are the way to go. These dolls start at $699 and are made to resemble a real human body in terms of height, shape, and skin texture. Full-size dolls often include features such as long legs, a head, hair, large breasts, and even vaginal and anal openings. They are made from high-quality TPE or silicone materials, sometimes featuring metal frames for better posture and durability. You can browse our Full-Size Silicone Series dolls here (click here to explore).

AI-Enhanced Robotic Sex Dolls

If you're looking for the most advanced experience, our AI Sex Doll Series might be what you need. These dolls, priced above $1099, come with features like AI voice, vaginal heating, lubrication, and even oral sex functionality. This upgrade makes them more expensive, but the added realism is perfect for those seeking a more immersive experience. Check out the AI Robot Girlfriend Series (click here to explore).

How to Pay for Your Sex Doll?

We understand that purchasing a premium sex doll can be a significant investment, which is why we offer installment payment options. For those considering a custom doll (click here for custom options) or a silicone model (click here for silicone dolls), the higher price can be made more manageable through flexible payment plans.

You can choose installment payments up to 24 months, which significantly reduces your monthly payment. The best part is that you can still enjoy your doll while paying for it over time. Please contact your credit card issuer to find out more about their policies regarding installment payments.

Safe Payment Methods

Your privacy and payment security are our top priorities. We offer a variety of trusted payment methods, including but not limited to:

Credit Cards: AMEX, Visa, MasterCard, JCB, Discover
PayPal
Shop Pay
Apple Pay
Google Pay
Stripe

Rest assured, all your payment details are encrypted and kept private.

What If I Change My Mind? Order Cancellations & Returns

If you’ve changed your mind and no longer wish to keep your doll, you can cancel your order and request a refund under our Return and Refund Policy. Please note that there are certain conditions and timeframes for cancellations and returns, which can be found in our detailed policy here.

Here’s a brief outline of our refund and cancellation process:

Order Cancellation: If you wish to cancel your order, please contact us within 24 hours after placing your order. If your doll has not yet been shipped or customized, we’ll be happy to assist with the cancellation.
Returns: If you’ve received your doll and wish to return it, you may do so within the allowed period. Please keep the doll in its original, unused condition. Custom dolls may have a different return policy, so be sure to check the terms when placing your order.
Refunds: Once we approve the return, we will issue a refund based on the payment method used. Please note that some charges (such as shipping) may not be refundable, and there may be restocking fees depending on the doll's condition.

Are Sex Dolls Safe for Your Health?

When it comes to sex dolls, many users worry about the materials used and whether they are harmful to the body. Thankfully, modern sex dolls are made with safe, medical-grade materials, such as TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) and silicone, which have been extensively tested and certified as body-safe.

Since 2009, there have been significant advancements in medical materials, and manufacturers have started prioritizing high-quality, body-safe materials for their dolls. These materials are non-toxic, non-porous, and certified as safe for use on human skin.

What Are Body-Safe Materials?

Body-safe materials are non-porous and free from harmful chemicals. These materials do not absorb bacteria, making them safe to use for intimate contact. Some of the materials used for sex dolls and other sex toys include:

Silicone
Stainless steel
ABS plastic
Glass
Wood (with certain treatments/finishes)
Aluminum
Titanium
Ceramic
Stone (with certain treatments/finishes)

For further details, you can visit the following resources:

Wikipedia on Sex Dolls and Materials (click here)
Reddit discussion on safe materials for sex toys (click here)
Health Risks of Toxic Toys (UC Davis Study)

Comparing TPE and Silicone Materials for Sex Dolls

Below is a comparison table between TPE and Silicone materials to help you understand the differences in terms of experience, durability, safety, and care:

Feature	TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer)	Silicone
Feel and Experience	Soft and flexible, closely mimics human skin. Feels warmer and more "alive".	Firm but lifelike, maintains its shape well. Feels smoother and more realistic than TPE.
Durability	Less durable than silicone, prone to wear and tear over time.	Highly durable and resistant to wear, will last longer than TPE dolls.
Health and Safety	Non-toxic and safe when made from medical-grade TPE. However, it’s slightly more porous than silicone, which means it can hold on to bacteria and requires thorough cleaning.	Non-porous and hypoallergenic. Very safe for sensitive skin and does not absorb bacteria or odors.
Maintenance	Requires more frequent cleaning due to its porosity. Needs extra care to prevent mold or bacteria build-up.	Very easy to clean and maintain. Silicone does not absorb bacteria or odors, making it low-maintenance.
Price	More affordable than silicone dolls.	More expensive but offers longer-lasting durability and ease of use.
Workmanship	Good for creating a lifelike appearance but can be prone to damage (e.g., tears) over time.	Excellent workmanship, often used for high-end, full-body dolls with metal skeletons for better posing and durability.

Can People with Sensitive Skin Use a Sex Doll?

If you have sensitive skin or allergies, it’s natural to be concerned about using a sex doll. The good news is that both TPE and silicone materials used in modern dolls are hypoallergenic and safe for most people, including those with sensitive skin.

However, there are a few things to keep in mind:

Silicone is generally the best choice for people with sensitive skin, as it is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and does not trap bacteria.
If you are particularly sensitive to certain materials, it’s a good idea to test a small, inconspicuous area of your skin with a sample of the material before use.
Ensure the doll is well-maintained, cleaned, and dried after every use to prevent any potential skin irritation.

To further minimize risk, you can also use a silicone-based lubricant and make sure that the doll’s material is thoroughly cleaned and disinfected regularly. This will keep it safe and hygienic for you to use.

How to Clean and Maintain Your Sex Doll

Keeping your sex doll clean is essential for both hygiene and longevity. Proper cleaning and storage will help maintain its appearance, ensure that it lasts longer, and ensure that it remains safe for use. Here’s everything you need to know about cleaning and storing your doll to keep it in top shape.

How Often Should I Clean My Doll?

Cleaning your doll is critical, but it should be done in moderation to prevent damage to the material. The balance between hygiene and the lifespan of your doll is important. While it may seem logical to clean your doll after every use, excessive cleaning can lead to material degradation, skin tears, and other issues over time.

Recommendation: We suggest cleaning your doll every 2-4 weeks.

This timeframe allows you to clean the doll regularly while preventing damage from over-washing. If you use the doll more frequently, you may need to clean it more often. However, cleaning it too much could cause damage to the skin, leading to wear and tear. Finding a balance is key to keeping your doll in good condition.

What Cleaning Materials Should I Use?

When cleaning your sex doll, it’s important to use the right materials to ensure its safety and longevity. Here is a list of recommended cleaning supplies:

Antibacterial soap: This helps eliminate bacteria and odors.
Water: Use lukewarm water to clean the doll’s body.
Talcum powder (baby powder): Helps keep the doll’s skin smooth and prevents stickiness after cleaning.
Light sponge: To gently wash the surface.
Second sponge cut into smaller swabs: For cleaning delicate areas.
Non-abrasive drying cloth: To ensure a soft drying process.
Medical pincers: For any small areas that need attention.
Strong paper towel: For drying and absorbing moisture

Each doll also comes with a small cleaning kit, which usually includes a vaginal irrigator for easier cleaning of internal areas.

How Do I Clean My Doll's Body?

Cleaning the doll’s body can be a very therapeutic ritual for many owners, creating a deeper bond with your doll. Follow these steps for proper body cleaning:

Use antibacterial soap and lukewarm water. Avoid using harsh or chemical-heavy soaps as they can damage the doll's material.
Use a light sponge to gently clean the doll’s body. Apply gentle pressure to avoid damaging the skin.
Rinse thoroughly with clean water to remove any soap residue.
Dry the doll using a non-abrasive drying cloth or a strong paper towel.

For best results, cleaning can be done in your shower or bathtub. If you’re comfortable lifting and positioning your doll, this method allows for an efficient and thorough clean. Be sure to avoid submerging the doll’s head and neck in water, as this could cause rust to build up in the neck screws.

How Do I Clean My Doll's Holes?

Cleaning the vaginal, anal, and oral cavities of your doll is essential for hygiene. Here’s the process:

Use the vaginal irrigator provided with your cleaning kit.
Fill the irrigator with lukewarm water and use it to flush the internal areas gently.
Clean with antibacterial soap and rinse thoroughly.
Ensure that the doll's interior is completely dry before storing to prevent bacterial growth.

It’s important to clean these areas thoroughly after each use to maintain hygiene.

How Do I Dry My Doll After Cleaning?

Proper drying is just as important as cleaning when it comes to maintaining your doll’s condition. Here's how to do it:

Gently pat the doll’s body dry with a non-abrasive towel.
Avoid rubbing or applying pressure to sensitive areas, as it may cause damage.
If you’re cleaning the doll in a shower or bathtub, leave it to air dry for a few hours. Ensure it is completely dry before storing it.
Use baby powder (talcum powder) on the body after drying to prevent stickiness and keep the skin feeling soft.

Make sure the doll is fully dry, especially in areas that can trap moisture, like the holes, to prevent mold or bacterial growth.

How Do I Clean The Doll's Hair/Wig?

Many sex dolls come with removable wigs or hairpieces. Here’s how to care for them:

Remove the wig carefully.
Wash the wig in cold water with a mild shampoo. Avoid using any strong chemicals.
Gently comb through the hair while it’s wet to prevent tangling.
Air dry the wig naturally, avoiding direct sunlight or heat sources.
Once dry, you can style the wig as desired, but avoid using high-heat styling tools that could damage the fibers.

Storage

Proper storage is essential for maintaining the doll’s appearance and ensuring it remains in good condition. Here are some tips for storing your sex doll:

Avoid direct sunlight: Prolonged exposure to UV rays can cause the doll’s skin to fade or degrade.
Prevent dust buildup: Store the doll in a clean, dust-free environment to avoid any particles sticking to the doll’s surface.
Avoid harsh chemicals or inks: Ink stains, makeup, and other harsh chemicals can damage the doll’s material and leave permanent marks.
Use a storage bag: If available, a storage bag can help protect the doll from dust and environmental factors while keeping it in good shape.
Keep the doll in a cool, dry place: Avoid areas with extreme heat or humidity to prevent material degradation.

How to Have Sex with a Sex Doll

Using a sex doll for intimate experiences is becoming increasingly popular as technology and materials improve, making these dolls feel more lifelike. Here’s everything you need to know about using a sex doll for intercourse, including lubricant choices, the experience with oral sex dolls, AI-powered moaning features, and doll positioning.

Do I Need Lubricant to Use a Sex Doll?

Lubricant is highly recommended when using a sex doll. It enhances the experience by making the intercourse smoother, more comfortable, and more realistic. Without it, the doll’s internal areas could feel dry, which can affect the enjoyment and even cause damage to the doll’s material over time.

Lubricant Selection and Application

Water-based lubricants are the best option for most sex dolls, as they are gentle on the material and won’t degrade the doll’s skin or internal features.
Silicone-based lubricants can be used, but be careful as they may damage the TPE material over time. TPE dolls are more sensitive to silicone-based lubricants.
Oil-based lubricants should be avoided as they can cause irreversible damage to the doll’s material

How to apply the lubricant:

Apply a generous amount of lubricant to the doll's vaginal, anal, or oral cavities.
Smooth it evenly to ensure the material is well-lubricated and ready for use
You can also apply it directly to your own body to enhance comfort and prevent friction.

How Does It Feel to Use a Sex Doll with Lubricant?

With lubricant: The experience with lubricant feels smoother, more realistic, and comfortable, especially when using the doll for extended periods. The material glides more easily, and you won’t experience friction that could potentially harm the doll or reduce your pleasure.
Without lubricant: Using the doll without lubricant may feel uncomfortable and dry, and over time, the friction could degrade the material of the doll.

Can I Use a Sex Doll with Oral Function?

Yes, oral sex dolls with mouth functionality are available. These dolls are designed with a realistic mouth that mimics the feeling of oral sex, providing a more immersive experience.

Oral Function Experience

The oral function offers a lifelike sensation when used with the right lubricant. The mouth area is made with a soft, realistic material that closely mimics the feeling of oral sex. The experience will vary based on the quality of the doll, but a high-end doll with this feature provides a very realistic feel, offering a gentle, warm sensation, especially if the doll is heated.

Lubricant Application for Oral Dolls

Apply water-based lubricant to the doll’s mouth area to enhance the experience.
Ensure the inside of the mouth is well lubricated before use to make the experience smoother.

For an enhanced oral sex experience, you can browse our oral dolls collection here.

Do Sex Dolls with Moaning and AI Features Exist?

Yes, some AI sex dolls come equipped with moaning functions that simulate real-life responses, such as groaning, moaning, and even speaking. These dolls are designed to enhance realism by simulating intimate sounds that react to your touch or position.

AI Moaning Dolls

The AI moaning function allows the doll to react in a more natural way, creating the illusion of a real person responding during intercourse. This function can add excitement and increase the realism of your experience. The dolls with AI features can respond to touch with sounds of pleasure, creating a more immersive and lifelike sexual encounter.

Explore our AI sex dolls collection here.

How Long Does the AI Sex Doll’s Battery Last?

AI-powered sex dolls require charging, and the battery life depends on usage. On average, an AI sex doll can last for about 1-2 hours of continuous use before needing a recharge.

Charging the Doll

Most AI dolls come with a charging port that allows you to easily recharge the doll.
Charging time typically ranges from 2-4 hours, and after a full charge, you can use the doll for 1-2 hours before the battery needs to be recharged.

Can I Adjust the Sex Doll’s Position? Can It Be Bent?

Yes, many sex dolls come with an adjustable frame and posable skeleton, allowing you to move and pose the doll to various positions, similar to a real person. The doll can be adjusted to positions like missionary, doggy style, and cowgirl.

Posability:

High-end dolls feature poseable joints and flexible skeletons, making them highly adjustable and capable of holding many positions.
The flexibility of the doll varies depending on the quality of the materials and skeleton. Most dolls with a metal skeleton can bend easily, allowing for a range of positions.

Long-Term Usage Tips for Sex Dolls

To ensure your sex doll stays in great condition over time, follow these tips:

Regular Cleaning: Clean your doll after every use, and follow the recommended cleaning schedule (every 2-4 weeks).
Lubrication: Always use proper lubrication to protect the doll’s material and enhance the experience.
Proper Storage: Store your doll in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight. Use a storage bag to protect it from dust and environmental damage.
Battery Care: For AI dolls, ensure you charge them properly to avoid battery damage. Don’t leave the doll plugged in for too long after it’s fully charged.

Real-Life Experience with a Sex Doll

Appearance: High-quality sex dolls are incredibly realistic, often featuring full-body proportions, realistic skin textures, and highly detailed facial features. Many dolls even have realistic hair (wig), making them look more lifelike.

Experience: For many users, the experience of using a sex doll feels surprisingly realistic, especially with features like AI moaning, realistic body movements, and lubrication. The enhanced sensations provided by lubricant and the ability to adjust the doll into different positions make for a pleasurable and immersive experience.

How to Customize Your Sex Doll

Customizing a sex doll is a fantastic way to create a truly personal and unique experience. Whether you're looking for a celebrity-inspired doll, a doll designed to resemble someone you admire, or a doll with emotional features, there are various options available to make your dream doll come true.

1. Customizing a Celebrity-Inspired Sex Doll

If you have a celebrity or a public figure in mind whose features you admire, you can create a celebrity-inspired doll. Some manufacturers allow you to customize your doll to resemble the facial features, body proportions, and overall look of a famous person.

Steps to Customize a Celebrity Doll:

Select the Features: Choose the celebrity's features you want to replicate. This could include:Facial structure (eyes, nose, lips)

Hair style and color
Body type (bust size, waist, hips, etc.)
Skin tone and texture

Upload Reference Photos: You may be asked to provide reference photos of the celebrity you want to emulate. This helps ensure that the doll resembles your chosen celebrity as closely as possible.
Work with a Designer: Some companies offer designers or 3D modelers who work with you to finalize the look, making sure all the details are perfect before production begins

You can explore custom celebrity dolls by visiting certain doll manufacturers that specialize in personalized orders.

2. Customizing a Doll to Resemble Someone You Like

If you're looking to create a doll that resembles a specific person you care about, this is also possible. Whether it’s someone you know personally or just an idealized version of a certain appearance, you can personalize your doll to look exactly like the person you admire.

Steps to Customize a Personalized Doll:

Select Facial Features: Customize eyes, lips, nose, chin, and other facial features to match the person you like. You can choose:
- Eye color
- Lip shape and color
- Nose shape
- Facial expression (smiling, neutral, etc.)
Body Customization: Choose the body type that resembles your ideal partner, including:
- Height
- Weight (bust size, waist size, hips, etc.)
- Hair type, color, and length (straight, curly, short, long)
Additional Personalization: You can also add unique details like:
- Tattoo designs
- Freckles or birthmarks
- Clothing style or accessories if applicable
Provide Photos: Like with celebrity dolls, you may need to provide photos or even 3D scans of the person you want to emulate. This ensures that the doll is as accurate as possible in terms of resemblance.

Some manufacturers offer detailed customization tools where you can choose from different pre-set options or work directly with a designer to craft the perfect likeness.

3. Customizing a Doll with Emotional Features

If you want a doll with emotional responses or interactive features, some manufacturers offer AI-powered dolls that simulate emotions and reactions. These dolls can respond to touch, voice commands, and other stimuli, offering a more interactive, emotionally engaging experience.

Steps to Customize an Emotionally Engaging Doll:

AI Integration: Choose a doll with AI features, which include the ability to:

Moan and speak during intimate moments.
Respond to touch and movement, mimicking real-life reactions.
Express emotions like happiness, affection, or playfulness.

Voice Interaction: Customize the doll’s voice (accent, tone, personality). Some dolls can also simulate conversations based on pre-programmed responses or voice recognition.
Personalized Emotional Programming: Certain high-end models allow you to input personalized emotional responses. This means your doll will remember certain emotional interactions, creating a more personalized experience over time.
Upgrade to a Robotic Doll: If you want a fully interactive experience, robotic sex dolls offer advanced AI systems that go beyond physical features, offering emotional depth. These dolls can simulate conversations, voice commands, and even simulate real-life experiences.

You can explore AI sex dolls with emotional features here.

Where to Customize Your Doll

Many high-quality sex doll manufacturers allow you to customize dolls to your exact specifications. Depending on the company, you may be able to:

Choose from an extensive catalog of features.
Work directly with designers to achieve a highly personalized experience.
Have 3D rendering of your customized doll before the final production.

You can check out manufacturers like OrderSexDolls, where you can find a wide variety of dolls and customization options. Some platforms even offer tools to help you design your ideal sex doll step-by-step, allowing you to make detailed choices about the appearance, body, and interactive features.

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